Difference Between Love and Attraction

Difference between "Love" and "Attraction"


Difference Between Love and Attraction


Life confuses us always about Love and Attraction. They both are different from each other. Attraction can happen at any stage of life, but Love takes time to grow. Love is pure while attraction can fade away. Love at a first sight doesn't mean that the love, you are feeling for others,is pure or stable. The first feeling, we feel after meeting someone, is an attraction, not the pious Love. If you are attracted to somebody just because of beauty, money or incredible personality that is not Love because love goes beyond that all. Attraction always is based on lust or need. It attracts sensuality to be in physical relations rather than Love. It depends on need and when the need is over the attraction is automatically collapsed.

Difference Between Love and Attraction


The pious Love doesn't need any kind of physical pleasures. It is satisfied with others smile, welfare and integrity. Love is based on sacrifices. A person that accepts you, as you are real, that is Love. suppose, you have planted a rose plant and when it gets flowers, you pluck a flower just because you like it and you want to have it only. That is an attraction. But a person,  who knows that, after plucking, it could lose its beauty and fragrance forever, he will never dare to do it because he knows better ,a rose is safe and beautiful only with its plant ,so he leaves his desire to get it for a short period rather he gets happy to see it daily and waters it to keep it green always that's Love.


Difference Between Love and Attraction



The attraction is based on needs only. It can be the first step of Love but it needs time to grow and realizes itself. With Love you do more efforts, to make others happy. But in attraction, your motive is based only at needs and self-satisfaction first. Love gives chances to be more meaningful to others but attraction gives focus on each moment to get closer to attain opportunity. Love accepts you with your flaws and shortcomings. But attraction demands more. After fading attraction, it makes excuses for flaws and can ignore you in your bad times too and on the other hand love doesn't leave you ever alone in your bad times and always be a reason of your good times as well.


Difference Between Love and Attraction



There is a need to examine first yourself which of the two do you really feel. If you are still confused in between Love and Attraction then take time to analyse the situation. Never go for a hurry. It takes time to understand others and their needs. Relationships should be based on trust and integrity. The long term relationships go long only with Love, not with Attraction. So think twice before making a commitment. 

Difference Between Love and Attraction